physical appearance + words from mouth = "cover"

when ppl said dun judge the book by its cover, i dun think tat it's merely physical appearance... it is physical appearance and wat he said... confession or any words come out from mouth doesn't show how he/she really is ... thru long time observations n conversation, u will find out something different from wat he/she said .. maybe .... jus maybe he/she doesn't know tat he/she did gave such message to others... but indirectly it contradict with wat he/she has mentioned... and i m speechless when someone is standing firm with some nonsense excuse/explaination he/she gave... there is no way to fight bac when nonsense excuse is given... wat v can do is observed their reaction ... perhaps he/she may b excited to wat he/she had jus said... and at the same time they felt the victory... when he/she has finally offended someone, he/she will explain tat he/she is joking and fooling around... and i always have in mind tat whether he/she understand wat i meant...

知错不改 is the conclusion

i have repeated about this for so so many times... i know tat u have heard it over n over again... u r bored of listening me complaining it over n over again... and u asked me y m i so mad n bad tempered... n i dun feel like telling u the same thing over n over again as wat i hav told u nvr come into a conclusion -- u did the same mistaken again n again... sometimes i m so pissed to myself for being mad at the same thing, i cant control of myself to b mad at u... over the times, i did all the stuff without grumbling... until tat i know u r depending on me to finish all the stuff for u... i m not counting every dime... in fact, i hate doing all these stuff... and wat u said is if one dislike in doing those stuff, u shouldn't push urself to do it... yes i understand this n i agree with this at SOME stage... i cant apply this to everything in life... this is very irresponsible when u r trying to apply it to everything... for example,1. if one dun like to do the housechore, he/she will hav to do it as v r living together as housemate, and i know tat u hate to do it.. and i m sure tat no one will love to do it... if everybody apply the same principle(which is dun force urself to do it when u dislike), i m sure tat u wont live in the comfortable environment and somehow u will complain about it...2.if one dun feel like studying a particular course which forced by parents and he/she have a course in mind, he/she should be firm n dun go for it...this is wat i mean by the pros of this principle... in life, ppl hav to be moderate in everything... especially when u r communicating n living with ppl tat is not ur family... even if they are ur family, u should help them too... and when u feel tat no one is complaining about it doesn't mean tat everyone is satisfied... to be honest, i hate doing all the cleaning stuff, i feel disgusting everytime i did it... but i feel even more disgusting whenever i see the place full of rubbish and cover with stain... u have already apologise for it... when the first time u apologised, i thought tat u will change... the 2nd time, 3rd time etc u apologised for the same thing again, this is obviously not a sincere one... i m not trying to trigger the same thing again n again... i always feel bored when it appeard to b the problem again... when u trying to argued with me, i fight bac... then u told me " i dun like to do it n i wont do it" wat the hell ... i m speechless by wat u said... it doesn't mean tat u have won the 'fight'... this is nvr be the point in a debate... this is wat some naughty kid will say when mom scold them... okay fine ... since this is wat ur conclusion, i have concluded something too --- which 知错不改 !!!!! i know i shouldn't do it n waste my energy in angry at u coz i should know tat u r this kinda person n u wont change... but u asked about it AGAIN... somehow mayb u did care about how i feel but u dun seem to be willing to make any changes... u r accepting it as some good personality... since tat everybody is tired of listening to it again, y dun u make a move to change since it is not a good action ?? and the problem is u apologise to ur mistake ( means u admitted it) and still u stick to the same mistake n expected me to accept ur mistake... firm standing in some principle is not a good thing.. in fact it affects others... maybe perhaps everytime u apologise, i still believe tat u r trying to change urself ( this is not only becoz of the house chores thingy) ... 2nd conclusion is tat I M STILL INNOCENT...